Wednesday, January 12, 2011. What does a girl do after devoting three years to caring for the man she loves? I guess she starts a new blog. Unfortunately it starts with the mundane. Life becomes filled with paper work, donating, and phone calls. Friends slowly call, write and ask how they can help. Bills that I have happily given over to my partner are now needing to be handled by me. Not me, I guess. Ann, on her own. Going on after death of a parter.

Not keeping the abuse a secret. Be silent or be shunned. This can be disorienting, disruptive, and anxiety-provoking. Shunned as I am by more family members than not, I sometimes feel akin to a disobedient member of an Amish community experiencing rituals of shaming. In therapy for decade s.

I know what you are thinking. This post describes my extensive research on human behaviour when it comes to their delicate relationship between the finger and the horn on their bikes, scooties, cars, trucks and not to forget buses! Yes, my good ppl. BUT DONT YOU GET IT THAT THE SIGNAL IS RED FOR YOU? .